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Looking for penpals [Sunday, October 26th, 2014 4:38pm


Dear friend hello and thanks for taking your time in reading my message!
My name is Gioia and I am 14 years old. I am facing my homosex nature since about one year and after following the suggestions of few of my friends I have put this message here.
My closest friends tag me as a wierd teenager with a taste for macabre and attraction for violent things. They are probably right but I like the way I am. They tell me I look sunny but inside I am like a sort of demon. Well this is exaggerated but it is true that I prefer to talk about snakes and disintegrated girls rather than make up and dolls (unless they are demon dolls hehe).
I am interested in penpals from everywhere in the world, and I do not care about the age. Possibly the penpal should be lesbian so we can talk freely also (but not only) about our lez-life, but it is OK also if you are not: the important point is that you do not have to spam me with your homofobic comments!!!!!!!
Another point I want to make clear once for all: I will give you neither my facebook account nor my mobile number to anyone (whatsapp, viber etc: forget about it). I did this mistake in the past and I got only perverts texting me their shit, or stupid people spying my everyday life. If I feel comfortable with you then as long as we know each other better we can exchange more contact informations. If you do not like this then please save your time and avoid writing me, as I will ignore any email asking my facebook or my whatsapp.
Cheers and write me to my email address:
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Seeking friendship [Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 11:25pm


Name: Heidi
Age: 15
Orientation: lesbian
Relationship status: single

About me:
Hello my name is Heidi, I'm 15 years old. I live in the United States. I consider myself fun-loving and caring. I'm seeking a friendship with someone who's understandable, funny, and similar to me. When I was 12 I was molested by close member of my family. The situation I went through made it harder to open up and build relationships. I come from a really big family. I'm currently a closet lesbian due to the fact my family are homophobic. During my free time I love to read and watch TV. I'm a huge walking dead Fan! I love babysitting. I used to play volleyball, basketball, and tennis but I stopped after an injury. I am very open minded and new to this penpal thing. Thanks for taking the time to read this if you like to contact me my email is Hope to hear from you soon.
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Seeking friends [Friday, April 18th, 2014 2:09pm


Name: Pella
Age: 14
Birthday: July 10th
Gender: Female
Orientation: Bisexual, leaning to the lesbian side
Location: Finland
Occupation: Student
Language: Finnish/Swedish, but I know English and German as well
Relationship status: Single

About me:

I am a 14, soon 15 year old, and currently unsure of her sexual orientation, girl. When I say I am unsure, it means I don't know whether I am bisexual or lesbian. Guess I don't know myself that well.
I enjoy playing bass and the piano; creating, playing and listening to music; doing arts (this includes both drawing and writing). One could say I am a creative person, but I don't usually believe them.

I am diagnosed with a medical illness called psychotic depression. The depression is severe, and the psychosis is at a developing stage, the doctors not knowing what to do. So I'm really trying to get something out of the little things in life, even if it'd prove to be difficult.

Books: A Song of Ice and Fire -series, Lord of the Rings
Movies: Shaun of the Dead, Lord of the Rings, Nightmare before Christmas, The Hobbit, The Ring, The Grudge, Requiem of a Dream
TV: Game of Thrones, Supernatural, Once Upon a Time, Walking Dead, Firefly
Music: Iron Maiden, Green Day, Ghost B.C. Epica, Within Temptation, Guns N' Roses, Megadeth, Children of Bodom... everything goes with me.

Looking for open-minded people and long-time friends.

Pen Pal Information:
How many penpals do you have? Some.
How many penpals do you want? I don't really care.
How long are your letters? Depends if I'm in the right mood to write long letters. Also, how busy I am.
How long does it take you to reply to a letter? Shouldn't be very long, I check my mailbox severl times a day and will notice if someone's written something to me.
Handwritten or typed? Snail mail, e-mail, whatever is fine.
Age preference? Would prefer 13-16.
Where in the World? Anywhere.
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I'm new and looking for someone fun [Sunday, March 23rd, 2014 11:07pm


[ mood | flirty ]

So yeah, I don't really understand this very much:S
I'm looking for someone fun to talk to;), add me or comment if I'm the type ofperson you would like to talk to!

Age: 15
Location: South Wales, UK
Relationship Status: Single

I am a student and when I finish school next year I'm planning on moving to England to study in London:-)
I love Harry Potter, Skins, Misfits, Inbetweeners, American Pie and anything to do with Johnny Depp!!
I love to sing, dance, play football and tennis. I'm part of a musical later on this year called Sunshine on Leath so that shows that I love musical theatre and all that jazz. Music is a big part of my life!
I can be a nice, genuine person! I've been told I'm quite funny too:-)

I'll talk to anyone with a nice personality!
Message me..

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looking for a penpals [Monday, March 17th, 2014 11:23am


[ mood | anxious ]

iliana , 37 , single , lesbian , artist . looking for a serious penpals - lesbians .

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Uk grrl wanting to meet the world [Saturday, March 8th, 2014 11:27am


[ mood | Happy ]

Good afternoon ladies (at least it is while I write this).
I'm Emma, although most people call me EJ, and I used to have a bunch of pen pals when I was younger, but since life happened they all kind of dwindled out, not through want of trying though!
I've posted on here before and spoke to and communicated with a few people but that also faded besides 1 or 2, I'm starting to feel very unloved lol.
I'm a down to earth individual, i will talk about almost anything and everything, my emails and letters depend on how much time i have to reply as they could be long e-mails or letters or sometimes short quick ones, theres no real specific for how long they are. but i will always reply!
I enjoy reading and I'm a bit of a gamer so that keeps me entertained too.
I work at a discount store as a customer service supervisor which lately has meant that I sit on a computer for half a day and count stock the rest of it, which can be tedious, but luckily for me I work with some of the best people I have met :)
I dont mind where you are from or if English isnt great, there is always google translate :)
I don't mind who contacts me, if you are nice enough and not just e-mailing me to throw abuse at me (unfortunately that has happened) then ill gladly reply and get to know you :)
I would love to snail mail or e-mail with anyone that is interested in being pals :)
i have two e-mail addresses, so you can choose either to contact me: or
I hope to hear from you soon
EJ :)

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Looking for a penpal near my age. [Tuesday, February 18th, 2014 10:35am

[ mood | curious ]

Gender: Female
Location: Ohio, United States
Relationship Status: Single
Interests: Homestuck, Movies, Sherlock, Writing, Reading, Cello, Music, Wolves, Hiking, Drawing, etc.
About Me:I am sorta interesting I guess. I have a tendency to fan girl or just ramble about stuff when I get excited(even if it just nonsense). I'm also sarcastic and witty. I am in the middle of writing my first book and maintaining three tumblrs.
Snailmail or Email?: I would love snailmail, but I can only afford to send withing the US(I will make an execption for people who live in French River Municipality, Ontario.), but I can do email too.
Email: (please put penpal somewhere in subject.)
Any penpals?: Not since the idiot I had to write to in third grade.

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Looking For Some Good Friendship [Monday, December 30th, 2013 2:06am


[ mood | lonely ]

Hello there. I am a 23 year old female Canadian Girl. I am part Ukraine too. I live with my family still. I work as a daycare worker part time. My birthday is January 2 1991. I am bi so into girls\boys.

I love children, And love working with them. I don't have any of my own yet. I hope to someday.

I live in Edmonton Canada Alberta all my life. I want to travel and see the world someday. I want to learn about each and every country.

I only know English. I am learning Japanese, French, Ukraine. I hope to learn others too.

I don't go to school. I have 1 brother who live with his girlfriend. I am friendly caring open sweet kind nice big heart person.

I am a true animal lover with 8 pet's. I love them like family big big big time.

I like\love. Gardening, Anime, Manga, Video Games, Shopping, Youtube, Writing, Pen-Palling, Swapping, Trading, Christmas, Halloween, Pokemon, Digimon, Music, Movies, TV, Vampires, Zombies, Reading, Books, Poems, Kawiai, Hello Kitty, Cute Stuff, Snail Mail, Art, Crafting, Drawing. And so much more stuff too.

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Find a friend [Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 8:21pm


[ mood | thoughtful ]

  • Name: Ana

  • Age: 36

  • Birthday: September 11th

  • Gender: Female

  • Orientation: Lesbian

  • Location: Spain

  • Occupation: web designer -literary critic

  • Language: Spanish, English or Portuguese

  • Relationship status: Single (but divorcied)

  • Contact: I do not usually look much my Livejournal, so if you want to contact me send me an email first to:

About me:

I'm serious with a sense of humor. A little bit shy and sometimes procastinator. I'm curious and I like to know things (but i'm not nerd), see places, people and / or customs. I like write tales, fanfics and letters; read; my pets (2 dogs and a cat); walk; cinema; music; cooking, cross-stitch,  and more. I prefer sanil mail than email. I'm a lesbian, recently I came out, it was not easy. And since then, I have tried involved in LGTB issues (such as rights, health, feminism, etc.)

Pen Pal Information:

  • How many penpals do you have? None

  • How many penpals do you want? I'd rather have good friends to have many friends

  • E-Mail or Snail Mail? Snail mail !!! I like the snail mail, I prefer the letters before the email.

  • How long are your letters? I like to write, but it depends on when I have to tell. Minimun 2 pages or more

  • How long does it take you to reply to a letter? As fast as I can.

  • Handwritten or typed? Both

  • Age preference? I don't mind.

  • Where in the World? Anywhere.

  • What are you looking for in a penpal? A long and good friendship

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Need someone to talk to! [Tuesday, November 26th, 2013 9:00pm

Name: Natalie
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Orientation: Bisexual
Location: England
Occupation: Student
Language: English, but I know simple French and German
Relationship status: Single

Okay where to start...
My name is Natalie, I'm 15 years old and I am english. I am going through a family crisis at the minuet and I was wondering if there was anyone in the world that could relate to me. My family are thinking that I am claming to be gay because I am still grieving over breaking up with my boyfriend, but I broke up with him because I knew it was wrong and that it really wouldn't work between us!
I've been having allot of arguments with my mum about this. She says that I came out to get attention from everyone because I am an 'attention seeker', and she will not accept me for being who I am. She also mentions my sister in every conversation we had and in the end I just snapped and said, "look I'm sorry that I'm not my perfect sister! I'm sorry that I'm not old enough to get a job! I'm sorry I don't have the perfect boyfriend! I'm sorry that I'm gay!" I don't think that helped with my situation, but I just snapped and couldn't control what I was saying.
Further more, I am in love with my straight best friend. She constantly says that no one will ever love her for being her and she will never have the perfect family because no one likes her and it breaks my heart because I do love her and care about her more than anything and I really like her! can anyone relate to me!

But anyway, if you want to have a normal conversation with me, here is a bit about me!
I am a geek! I am a massive fan of games, comic books, normal books, book series', films, anything! I am also a massive fan of musical theatre! when I leave school, I am hoping to get somewhere with acting!
I also Glee, the internet and youtubers! The youtubers that I watch include Danisnotonfire, Amazingphil, Kickthepj, Crabstickz, Tyler Oakley, Smosh, Shane Dawson, Joey Graceffa and many more!

Pen Pal Information:
How many penpals do you have?: none so far
How many penpals do you want? I dont mind.The more the merrier...
E-Mail or Snail Mail? Email, I have no idea what snailmail is XD.
How long are your letters? it depends on what the topic is
How long does it take you to reply to a letter? Within two weeks, if im not busy i'll write ASAP.
Handwritten or typed? I'd prefer typed :)
Age Preference: I would probably prefer someone close to my age, maybe 19 at the oldest, but I don't mind
Where in the World? Anywhere! As long as i can understand your english and you can understand mine...
Dont hesitate to drop me an email at :)

Thanks :3
Nat x
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Victim of love [Sunday, November 24th, 2013 7:34pm


I really don't know where to start cause maybe I don't know where to end or what will be the ending. Love is a question mark for me.Cause I don't know if giving everything is called love; being jealous and unfair is called love; if dieing for someone is called love; and fighting even its wrong is called love. They said having love most start with the family, with a parents, grand parents, good brothers and sisters, a happy family but unfortunately I don't have even even one of them. An endless love of a parents, a happily smiling grand parents I don't have that....

A young girl to a woman I never felt to be loved. A reason why I cannot identify if a man is loving me or I'm I loving him. So I decided to be both. I tried to love a person like me. I found her, liked her, been attracted to her and felt something that what they called love. For three months that where dating I discovered that she was cheating on me. That she have an ex girlfriend and that she loves her ex so much, that the reason why she wanted me was to have someone to talk to, to have fun, to forget her ex for a while, to make her ex jealous and aim her ex back. And when it happened she will tell me the whole truth and the thing was she just used me and didn't loved me at all.

All she planned came smoothly and I was left behind. And in that instant all I said was "please don't live me..... if you want you can be with her sametime with me... I'll be the mistress just don't live me" And that's what I thought love.... to be fooled, to eat my pride that was left from me and to let fo my little ego behind. That made me happy I think and been happier when I heard the news that her ex also cheated on her, fooled her same thing she did to me and saw her running at me crying and told me "why didn't I choice you instead of her?" I just smile with pain in my heart cause that was called love

We've been happy or what I say I was been happy I think so again..... she always want to fight with me and that I think it's sound sweet cause they said the more fight the more love to grow. She ignores me when she's with her friends.Cheating on me sometimes but still I accepted because I loved her. One thing I love about her the most was her parents. Even she's the worse daughter that her neighbours called her still her parents lobed her endlessly. With almost two years with her that I called her "happiest and saddest moment of my life" I decided to let her go that was January first. To free both of us, to free my self and start again with a real love a female male love. It's so hard to let go, but now I realised it was not but the love is the one that hard to find.

Before and After I still didn't find it. Maybe I really can't find it cause for the beginning I didn't felt to be loved, I didn't know what a real love means. I didn't trust cause all I get was lies. How can I start if I felt that I'm one of the many person tells that "I am a victim of love".....
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Seeking like-minded lady-friends :) [Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 1:44pm

Hello there! I'm Ellie, I'm nearly 21, and I'm currently studying English Literature at university in the UK. I'm looking for any nice, friendly people who would just like to exchange emails (or real letters after we'd spoken for a bit) with a like-minded person. I love my straight friends dearly, but there are some interests they just can't share, and issues they can't relate to. I would love to find somebody to share these queer corners of my personality with - whether we talked about the big stuff, or just little things like the latest Autostraddle and AfterEllen pieces, our favourite Sarah Waters novels, or which Quin twin has the best hair. Life, the universe, and everything really!

I love to read (lit student!), to write (badly), movies, theatre, lots of kinds of music, binge-watching entire TV series in single weekends, eating too much food, long walks, the sea, my cat and my dog.
If you want to talk, write to me at :)
I look forward to hearing from you!
E xxx
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[Sunday, October 13th, 2013 10:44pm


Name: Olivia
Age: 13
Birthday: July 20
Gender: Female
Orientation: Bisexual
Location: Australia
Occupation: Student
Language: English
Relationship status: Single

About me: Hello! I'm Olivia, or any variation of Livvy. I'm a closeted bisexual who's out to maybe ten of my friends. I'm looking for someone that I can chat about pretty much whatever with. It'd be cool if we could exchange gifts for birthdays/christmas/candy for halloween if you're from a different country as well. I'd describe myself as a people person, loving of my friends, a little bit of a bookworm, creative, nerdy, optimistic, having a good sense of humour, and generally a good-natured person. I'm a massive fan of One Direction, Glee, Tumblr, anything by Jackie French, and Youtubers such as JacksGap, Tyler Oakley, Casper Lee, Troye Sivan, Marcus Butler, etc.. My dream and goal at the end of highschool is to move to London with my friend at the end of high school, and make Youtube videos for a living in my gap year. If you're interested in being my penpal, please email me at Bye!

Pen Pal Information:
How many penpals do you have? None yet C:
How many penpals do you want? Probably around 2-3
E-Mail or Snail Mail? Snailmail!
How long are your letters? Medium to long, sometimes I'll ramble.
How long does it take you to reply to a letter? Within two weeks.
Handwritten or typed? I'd prefer handwritten, but it doesn't really matter
Age preference? Any age!
Where in the World? Anywhere! As long as your English is up to scratch.
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Penpals wanted :D [Sunday, October 13th, 2013 2:04pm


Name: Magdalene
Age: 15
Birthday: March 2nd
Gender: Female
Orientation: Lesbian
Location: Singapore
Occupation: Student
Language: English
Relationship status: Single

About me: Mhhmmm, I love music, and I listen to a lot of Lady Gaga, Lana Del Rey, Marina and The Diamonds, One Republic and Semi Precious Weapons :), I'm a hugeeeee little monster (if you can't already tell from my userpic)! Other than that, I loveeee Japanese culture, I'm not into anime/cosplaying but into cute stuff like Sanrio and San-x. I craft whenever I have the time (not so much now :/), but I like to decoden, paper craft and do a little bit of fabric work. I seem to have an uncontrollable obsession with shopping, so we can totally talk about shopping (for clothes, cute stuff, crafting items). I like to read, and I'm a huge fan of Jodi Picoult. Other things I like are travelling, writing, psychology, skateboarding, building nanoblocks, YouTube (PEWDIEPIE) and gaming. Oh and, I am obsessed with The L Word, Lip Service and Bloomington (Rachel Shelley, Natasha O' Keffe, Jennifer Beals and Allison McAtee give me life ohmygah).

Pen Pal Information:
How many penpals do you have? None :(
How many penpals do you want? The more the merrier~ But I can't write often, my GCSE's are next year :/
E-Mail or Snail Mail? Snailmail!
How long are your letters? Pretty long, I write a lot.
How long does it take you to reply to a letter? I'm on holidays now, so i'm able to reply fairly quickly, but from 2014 onwards, probably only two letters a month, sending them out on weekends.
Handwritten or typed? I prefer handwritten, but typing's ok :)
Age preference? Any age!
Where in the World? Anywhere! It'd be cool to have some Japanese/American penpals :D
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Hello :3 [Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 8:03pm


Hi, penpals. I'm Jessica, 21, and newbie from Indonesia. I'm a college student. I'm looking for someone who can to talk with :p Talk about boring day or anything. They say, I'm a quiet or shy person. But I will free talk about myself if you know me better.

Aristotle said, "Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies."

So, catch me on:
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Hi [Monday, September 23rd, 2013 3:41am


I am 37 and from Turkey. I lived abroad for a long while. I can speak Turkish, English, Russian and German. I am easy to talk with.
I read and travel a lot. People say that i am a good listener. In Turkey sometimes i feel stuck. There are not many people here with whom i can discuss lgbt issues. I want to make snail mail or email friends. If you want to drop a line here is my e-mail:
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[Sunday, September 15th, 2013 8:45pm

Name: Juliana
Age: 26
Location: Brazil
Hobbies/interest; Writing/Photography/ Reading
Music: Garbage/Fiona Apple/Hole/Nirvana/
The Distillers/Tom Jobim
Tv shows: Bad Girls, Oz, El Chavo del Ocho, The L word, Lip Service, Os Normais, Sex and the city
Movies: Antonia/Nome Próprio/But I'm a Cheerleader/ Downloading Nancy/ A Partilha/ Le Cahier Volé/Samba em Brasília/Nina/ Bicho De Sete Cabeças/ Edward Scissorhands/ Dangerous Minds/ If these walls could talk 2/ O Auto da Compadecida/El Pátio de mi Cárcel/Gia / The Hours/ Mrs Dalloway/ Lost and Delirious/ I am Sam/The Children's Hour/ Entre Tinieblas/Chicago/Yo la peor de todas/ Das Tripas Coração.

What are you looking for in a penp8al: Someone who is over 24 and wants to share the good and the bad of the everyday life. I have anxiety and depression so I would like to talk with someone who can relate to these problems.
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I'm nice, I promise :3 [Sunday, August 18th, 2013 10:37am


Name: KaylaAnn
Age: 22
Birthday: February 16
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana, USA
Occupation: Student
Language: English
Relationship status: Single

About Me: Hmm, well, I’m a university student in my senior year. I’ve lived abroad in South Korea and England. I watch too much television :c
Likes: I like specialty coffee, furry cats, rainstorms, and bike riding.
Music: I listen to a lot of diverse stuff, it just depends on my mood. I have unconditional love for The Killers.

Pen Pal Information:
How many penpals do you have? I don’t have any at the moment.
How many penpals do you want? I have no limit ^_^
E-Mail or Snail Mail? I prefer snail mail~
How long are your letters? It depends..
How long does it take you to reply to a letter? I do my best to reply as quickly as I can.
Handwritten or typed? It doesn’t matter.
Age preference? I would prefer university students or 20+
Where in the World? Anywhere!

I used to have several penpals, but over the years we've had to stop for various reasons. I really miss sending and receiving letters in the mail! :(
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Desperately needing friends!! [Monday, August 12th, 2013 3:19pm

Name: Chiara
Age: 19
Birthday: October 30th
Gender: Female
Location: Italy
Occupation: Student
Language: English, Italian, German
Orientation: Lesbian.
Relationship status: Single
Do you want more LiveJournal friends? Sure :D

About Me: I'm a good girl, I love spending time with my friends but they don't really help when it comes about being a lesbian. So under that aspect I feel pretty alone. I'm just done with high school and I'm starting university in September. If interested in my physical appearance, I'm a very sporty brunette.. Girls appreciate it, they say ;)

Likes: Cooking, eating, playing the guitar, singing, reading, studying, dancing, going out with friends...

Music: It's hard to find something I don't like
Films: Mamma mia, Cloud Atlas, Mrs Doubtfire, Pretty Woman, Forrest Gump, Into The Wild, Life is beautiful, The Last Song, Loving Annabelle, Imagine You & Me
Books: Isabel Allende, Chuck Palahniuk, Into The Wild, I read a lot so I can't write everything
TV Shows: Grey's Anatomy, Saving Hope, The L Word, Lip Service, Law&Order: SVU, Criminal minds, Pretty Little Liars

Pen Pal Information:
How many penpals do you have? None
How many penpals do you want? As many as possible, I love talking to people :D
E-Mail or Snail Mail? E-Mail is ok, but I wouldn't mind making friends on Facebook
How long are your letters? It depends
How long does it take you to reply to a letter? If I'm not busy, one day
Handwritten or typed? Of course typed
Age preference? I would prefer from 18 to 25, but it's ok even if you're older ;)
Where in the World? Anywhere
What are you looking for in a penpal? I just look for someone to talk to, who wants to share interests and make a new Italian friend ;)
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Looking for pen pals [Tuesday, July 30th, 2013 9:44pm


Hi, my name is Jill and I'm from the US. I'm posting here because I would like to have a snail-mail or email pen pal, but honestly, I'm afraid. I'm afraid of being a lesbian, even though I know that I am, and I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it. I like to draw, paint, read, write, play music (guitar, piano, euphonium), sing softly so no one can hear, bake, run, swim, play soccer, watch Doctor Who, meting new people and trying new things. My email is , so maybe write to me?
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